“The
artistry of Armenian mante” Special to the
Toronto Star, Nov. 6, 2002, D6
Among younger
generations, they are known as the Armenian
Grandmas.
The 20 women congregate around tables,
molding pieces of dough into tiny bowties.
Their heads are hunched over and they are
gravely squinting at their hands. They are
completely stationary - but for their
fleeting fingers that nimbly pinch pieces of
dough amidst small hills of flour.
The pieces are the size of your pinkie
finger. Called mante, they are stuffed with
a ball of ground beef, baked, and then
devoured with a sauce of yogurt, minced
garlic, and mint - a treat even within the
Armenian community.
A group of 20 or so older women meet once a
week, for eight hours at a time, amassing 45
kilograms each sitting. These women meet
every year for seven weeks before their
annual bazaar in the kitchen of the Armenian
Community Centre in North York, putting in
long hours each day.
One starts sweeping the floor frantically
before they start to work. "People are going
to come, and the floor is dirty," she
mutters as much to herself as anyone else.
Young boys in the uniform of the Armenian
private school on the premises carry in
three long folding tables and open them up,
puffing their chests to praise. "How good it
is to have youth around us," motherly voices
echo. Some hands clap.
Some have grandchildren, others have grown
children. All call anyone younger than them
hokis (a term of endearment that means "my
soul").
Even if few younger generations live with
their grandmothers today, the connection
between generations is undeniable. These are
the women that spoil the young and meddle in
their lives at the same time - all in the
interest of their grandchildren, or so they
say. In turn, younger Armenians revere the
grandmas' unintentional skills. Jokes get
made that those deft mante-making fingers
would be great at rolling joints. Snickers
ensue when it's mentioned mante (pronounced
mahn-tuh) is even packaged and sold in
plastic baggies.
Soon, stacks of rectangular baking sheets
are placed on the counter. One woman picks
up a big spoonful of margarine and plops it
on a sheet, rubbing it up and down
furiously. Mary Abramian's hair is a
golden-coifed blonde and she is wearing
large eyeglasses, black leather sneakers and
a matching black leather pouch over her blue
skirt. This is a grandma on a mission.
The red oven mitts on the counter are burnt
black at the tips - a testament to the
35-plus years that the Toronto Roupina
Chapter of the Armenian Relief Society
organization has been meeting.
The women will make as much as 40 to 50
kilograms of mante this week and then bag
and sell it from the community centre
kitchen and cafeteria. They sell out by the
end of the day from reserved orders or
parents who buy a couple of bags while
picking up their children from the school.
After a heated private discussion, a few
agree not to disclose the price of mante to
the public because of the possibility of
mante-making competition. "We are a business
after all," one says vehemently.
"Even though all our profits go to
charities," another rushes to add.
Don't pity their relentless hard work -
these women know how to have a good time.
Twice a year they trek to a different
destination for two nights. Once they went
to the Grand Canyon. This year they went to
Quebec City.
"Be sure to mention the churches we went to,
hokis," one woman interrupts. "Yes, we saw
the Notre Dame and Ste. Anne de Beaupre
cathedrals in Quebec."
In one corner, three women are bent over a
large garbage can peeling nearly 10
kilograms of onions. Once chopped, they will
be mixed with almost 20 kilos of ground
beef.
An electric mixer kneads the dough, but it
will be rolled out by hand to a three-millimetre
thickness with a wooden rolling pin. The
flat pancake of dough is then folded over
many times to become a rectangular-shaped
piece.
Silences are inevitably broken by the
chop-chop-chop of the knife slicing the
dough into tiny two-by-two centimetre
squares. A layer of steamy onion-infused air
drives the curious away. But these women
have nary a tear among them.
The next station of women takes the beef
mixture to make thumbnail-sized balls and
drop them in the centre of the dough
squares.
Another group of women pinches the ends of
the square to create the bowtie shape with
the meat peeking out. Once baked, a bite of
the crisp exterior yields a soft, steaming
centre.
The assembly line of workers moves like
clockwork. Ask for the specific recipe for
mante and no final measurements can be
confirmed or agreed upon. These women work
from intuition and the memories of their
mothers - now long gone.
About 350 members make up this chapter and
they are the driving force behind the annual
bazaars, dinner dances, and community
events. Their profits go toward the day
school, charities, and two annual
scholarships for academic achievement.
For most of these women who have long since
raised children or grandchildren, these are
opportunities to get together with friends -
and perhaps most importantly - to feel
needed.
Abramian has been a mante-making member for
20 years. She was born in Turkey, but moved
to Iran, and finally came to Canada in 1979.
Like most Canadians of Armenian descent, she
was not born in Armenia.
Armenians dispersed throughout the world
after the Armenian Genocide of 1915 during
which 1.5 million Armenians perished, and
millions more fled. More Armenians live
outside of the country than inside it, and
today, there are approximately 70,000
Armenian Canadians living in Toronto.
"Armenians gather around food for
companionship," says Laura Mavlian, one of
the main organizers, and chairperson for the
bazaar committee. Mavlian came to Canada in
1989 from Beirut.
Halfway through the morning, strong Armenian
coffee is made and doled out in small
ceramic cups. Plastic forks and paper plates
of pineapple upside-down cake are passed out
reverently. But no one stops working - or
chattering.
Strains of high-pitched prodding carry down
the length of the table, "Come on, come on,
where is the rest of it?"
In another corner, hushed tones discuss
toothaches that won't go away, and murmurs
console the untimely death of a husband.
"The more you talk, the faster you work,"
says Shogher Yeghoyan, treasurer of the
committee. "And we talk a little bit."
A few women pipe in at the same time: "A
little bit?" And they giggle like
schoolgirls.
Mismatched coffee cups are turned upside
down at an angle to let the grounds settle
so that the clairvoyant among them can tell
fortunes and offer life-saving advice.
When young women request to have their
fortune read, they are asked whether they
are married. The older women ask in an
offhand manner - in a
let's-get-to-know-each-other tone. They are
eager to please - and so their predictions
oblige any single hopefuls. Dotted leftover
coffee grounds on the inside of the cup are
interpreted to mean incoming cash.
"She was single? You should have told her
you saw luck in her future!" one woman
admonishes.
Her friend pokes fun at her fortune-telling
and doesn't stop until she is berated, "Zevzeg!
What's gotten into you?" (Zevzeg is Turkish,
and loosely translates to mean "silly").
Another pokes her neighbour, winks, and
whispers. "You don't believe in this stuff
do you, hokis?"
A warm smile and lowered eyes are the only
response you can give these women. It is the
isolated world of 2002, but these women live
in a time when handmade food remains special
and community matters. Voices of old friends
bubble in one corner. In another there are
backgammon sets and yellowing Armenian
newspapers.
There is comfort knowing that even if one
returned to this kitchen 10 years later -
the same group of women would still be
bantering over coffee and kneading
traditional values into future generations.